Every step in life is not meant to achieve something but is taken to create building blocks for your major achievements. Somewhere, we need to release the expectations from our efforts to achieve our true purpose. Rather than leaving the expectations from our efforts we tend to give up on our efforts.
It is not mandatory that every step is going to give you major and immediate results in form of achievements. Intension of delivering without any expectations turns every effort into great milestones. Detach yourself from expectations from your efforts. In Geeta it is said “ Karam Kar Phal (fruit) ki Iqcha (desire) na Kar”)
Today at this moment it might not be clear that what does it mean exactly to make efforts without expectations and why? When you think about serving others, it is important to check your right and strong intentions beyond it. Check it if your purpose of serving with any fear or any type of insecurity and attachments weather it is your family, profession or any other area of your life. Close your eyes and think what you want to give to others and why ? BE READY TO FACE THE FAKE GOOD SIDE OF YOU. You will encounter number of low energy beliefs behind the action which seems positive to you.
Check if your action or intention is result of some sort of attachment. May be you want to love your family, friends, society etc because your teacher teached it in childhood. Someone has instructed you that you have to love your family. You want to share your time your time with someone because you feel prestigious with them in the society. ISN’T IT AN EXPRESSION OF UNWORTHINESS THAT YOU FEEL PRESTIGIOUS BECAUSE OF SOMEONE ELSE. And , so you attract more unworthiness and force yourself to live those social obligations with lot of expectations and earthly attachments.
You don’t want to meet someone because you have still hold some past grudge for them. Let it go and make yourself free. Do you expect from your children that in your old age they are bound and will serve you and pamper you in lieu of what you have done whole life for them. Do you feel so insecure about your old age? So you will attract more insecurity for your supportive system. Watch your thoughts and let go these expectations for your better life